Does More Sex Equal Less Cheating From Your Wife?

There's a nasty rumor going around that the one sure fire way to prevent cheating in a marriage is more sex. Elitesingles  That's not exactly true. It isn't about the quantity of sex you're having, though you definitely need to be having some. It is most definitely about the quality of sex you're having.

 

Yes, there is such a thing as bad sex in marriages. You can be enjoying life on easy street while your wife can be gritting her teeth waiting for it to be over so she can get back to paying the bills or folding the laundry. Trust me you do not want your wife thinking about laundry while you're trying to have sex with her.

 

Why would she do it if she isn't getting what she needs from it? Because she knows you are. Women learned long ago that men who are sexually satisfied tend to be infinitely more malleable. Oddly enough, MeetMe.com there are a lot of men that haven't yet learned the same thing can be said about women.

 

In some ways, good sex can very well save your marriage. But, if your wife is cheating, it's a good wager that she isn't getting what she needs physically or emotionally at home. Is that your fault? Not hardly.

 

The one thing you have to understand in all of this is that your wife is a big girl. She has her own thoughts. She does her own deeds. Good or bad it is her choice to cheat. BUT, even more importantly, it is her responsibility to let you know she needs something you're not giving her.

 

You cannot be expected to meet needs you don't know exist. You are not a mind reader no matter how much she wants you VictoriaHearts.com review to be or how much you wish you could be.

 

What's your job now if you want to save your marriage?

 

Talk about your sex life with your wife. Ask her what her fantasies are. Find out if there is a way to make them come true for your wife. Find out if she's getting what she needs and see if there is anything you can do differently to make it better for her.

 

You don't want sex to lose all fun or sense of adventure in your marriage but you also want to make sure that you're both enjoying the sex you are having. Enjoying sex and having better quality sex means you're both happier and your marriage is healthier.